1000 Mothers want YOU to know these untold truths before you have your baby.


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Untold truths about what really happens to women during childbirth

Having a baby is a wonderful time in your life. But you must be prepared!

This FREE E-Book consists of the top 7 truths moms want you to know as you begin your transition to becoming a mother. Truths that you are unlikely to hear elsewhere, because they are a bit gross, embarrassing or uncool, but you absolutely must know before you have your baby to empower yourself to have a truly magical birthing experience. Whatever way that will look for you.


What you will GAIN FROM THIS FREE E-Book:

  • First-hand experiences of the top 7 things that can, and usually do, happen to women during labour, childbirth and early motherhood. As excerpted from the book:

I Wish Someone Had Told Me.. – unspoken truths about what really happens to women during labour, childbirth and the first few weeks of motherhood

  • Experiences shared by 1000 real mothers, from around the world, who want you to know these things before you have your baby.
  • Medically- and factually-correct information that you will not hear elsewhere – and people won’t discuss with you until you have had your own baby. If at all.
  • The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. No sugar-coating like other books!

  • Invaluable information from your virtual village, that will empower you to birth your baby like a boss and transition into motherhood smoothly.

Prepare yourself properly, Mama!

Learn the Top 7 untold truths about labour, childbirth and early motherhood that
1000 moms want YOU to know BEFORE you have your baby?

Hi, I’m Dr Jen!

Mother of three, PhD-qualified Neuroscientist, researcher, author of the best-selling book I Wish Someone Had Told Me… and founder of Tough Mothers.

I have been researching neuroplasticity – the brain’s ability to modify, change and adapt itself in both structure and function, as a result of our experiences and actions – for over 20 years. 

Initially largely on a micro level in medical research (I have a PhD in neuroscience), and in the last decade mostly on a macro level and in private practice with mothers and mums to-be (I also have a degree in Psychotherapy).

Specifically, I look at how matrescence – the developmental transition a woman goes through when she becomes a mother – affects mothers’ brains, and how we can use this life-changing transformation to our advantage, by intentionally and simply training our brain to create a motherhood life we thrive in. 

I didn’t deliberately set out on this path. It was something that I unintentionally developed when I was strugglingly indescribably after I had my third baby. I was desperate for a solution to feel better in motherhood.

It was through my transition from struggling in motherhood to thriving that I realised: when we become mothers the brain changes are massive. Yet we are not taught this. We are not taught that these changes will affect us profoundly on a neuropsychological level, and will therefore affect our wellbeing and our whole life. 

I researched and wrote I Wish Someone Had Told Me… because giving birth is the first step in our transition into motherhood. It is where the brain changes begin, and it all cascades down from there.
If we are prepared, informed and empowered when we give birth, we are automatically heading in the right direction to thrive as a mother. 

You are about to embark on an incredible journey of love, life and self-discovery. I hope this E-Book will support you in gathering the knowledge that empowers you have a wonderful birth experience, and start into motherhood. I would be delighted to join you on your journey and support to transition into motherhood smoothly. If you have any questions, please contact me.

You are not alone. 


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Giving birth is the first step in your journey of motherhood.
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The things 1000 mums wish they knew before having their baby

I Wish Someone Had Told Me… is the best baby shower gift parents can get. It arms mums-to-be and new mothers with information that one thousand mothers from around the world wish they knew before having their babies.

Because some things in labour, childbirth and early motherhood are just too gross or embarrassing to share, many parents don’t find out the truth about what can, and often does, happen to women until they go through it themselves. 


I Wish Someone Had Told Me… is the baby book packed with honest, medically- and factually-correct, informative, unspoken truths. It openly shares the gross, embarrassing, funny and rude things nobody likes to talk about, but every expectant mum must know.


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